How to talk to a man about your feelings

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But for example, if he thinks his girlfriend. MAN i was brainwashed that you dont cry, i was turned away from mushy lovey stuff i was forced into competitive sports and led to belive that your soul pourpouse in life is a monitary supporter.

Wait until the right time to request a one-on-one talk session with your man. We have to talk,” is a phrase that will make almost any man cringe. Sure, your man will be very well informed about your feelings and state of mind (if he didn’t space out half-way through), but you’ll still both be frustrated with the progress you want to make. Here’s why… The need to talk about your feelings with your man is most likely a symptom of a greater probleloss of connection and love. Many people come into therapy because a romantic partner wants them to share their feelings.

But noticing your feelings and saying how you feel and why is good practice. The more you do it, the easier it gets. Talking about your feelings is a healthy way to express them.

Talk about things he cares about.

If you want your man to open up about his feelings, you may have to step out of your comfort zone a bit, too. Take the first step, and talk to him about sports, or movies, or poker – whatever it is he’s into. Some men are silent about how they feel, but they love to talk about what they think. That kind of “drama” pushes a man away and makes him want to clam up and withdraw.

In order to feel comfortable, a man needs to know that he’s safe with you. He’ll feel safe when he sees that you are in touch with your feelings and able to express them in a clear, non-judgmental way. Your non-verbal communication also plays a big role in how you communicate your feelings. Losing your temper and throwing things will only reduce his regard for you. Therefore, always remember to be mindful of your facial expressions, the tone of voice, and body language when expressing yourself to a Virgo man.

TAKE THE PRESSURE OFF HIM TO “FIX” YOUR FEELINGS Of course, you want a man to acknowledge and satisfy your feelings and desires. Guys often think women talk about their feelings all the time because we just love to hear ourselves talk or that we’re drama queens. Okay, so that’s true for some women, but not all. Sit your guy down and explain why knowing what’s going on in his life and how it affects him is important to you.

If you’re in the same boat, you might also have a mental list of things people who can’t express their feelings want their friends, family, and loved ones to know. See if your gut was accurate or not. Of course, these are only ways that a married man might show he has feelings for you.

In addition, for each entry, there are similar versions, so don’t get too caught up in the details. The point is trust your instinct, they usually guide you in the right direction.

So now that you understand his emotional reality a little better, let’s talk about the three REAL reasons a man won’t talk about his feelings for you… REASON 1: He’s ’emotionally unavailable…’ Being “unavailable” can be a reason for some men, yes. But not nearly as much as all the magazines and daytime talk shows make it out. However, with a little patience and hard work, women can learn how to get guys to talk about their feelings.

But lo and behol when I finally suggested that we have a talk because I knew that I had things to say, he actually cared about my feelings. Because when people care about you, they care about your well-being, and they care about how they contribute to (or detract from) that well-being.